Dove Movement for Self~Esteem

Do you remember what you were like at 13?  I was a chunky, braces~wearing, nerd who spent most of my time holed up in a corner with a book.  I was socially awkward and did my best to avoid people.  Why?  Because I lacked self~confidence.  Looking back, I was just like every other 13~year~old girl ~ average weight, average height and incredibly unsure of myself.  Now I look at my girls who are 13, 14 and 16 and I see beautiful, self~assured young ladies who can do anything.

I’ve often said that my daughters are self~confident to a fault.  My youngest, who was late for class, once told her teacher “I’ve arrived, you can start now.”   Yeah, really. Even when they’re unsure of themselves, they square their shoulders, lift their heads up high and look the world straight in the eye.  I’m not really sure where they got that confidence but I’m pretty proud of them.  But I know not all girls have that sense of self worth ~ so many girls believe they’re worthless or that they’re not as capable as others around them.  I know what that feeling can do to a young girl and to a young woman…

That’s why I’m proud to join the Dove Movement for Self~Esteem and their campaign to help build positive self~esteem in girls and young women.  By increasing their sense of self~worth, Dove hopes to encourage young ladies to reach their full potential.  You can join the movement to by clicking here and leaving a few words of encouragement for a 13~year~old girl.

I remembered what I was like at that age and I wish someone had said the following to me:  ”You are beautiful and you are loved.  Whether you know it or not, someone is thinking about you and how much you mean to them.”

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  • Eden

    When I was 13 I longed for someone to trust, someone to talk to. Tormented by a secret that ate away at my soul since the age of seven. I lived in fear. He warned me not to tell, so I didn’t. He told me that if I told anyone, I would be the one who would get into trouble, because it was my fault! I believed him. Funny Huh!! Not so funny when you are seven though. I was 13 I hated my body,and I was scared and alone. Every morning I awoke drenched in sweat because of the nightmares. Molestation has to end. The animals that prey on our children need a harsher punishment. When I was 13 I was a terrified victim of molestation.
    Down Below

    She grabs her purse and her coat to go.
    The doorbell rings.
    She greets him with a smile
    and a warm, “hello.”

    He walks in and my heart begins to slow.
    “Good-bye kids – I have to go.”
    “…and you’d better obey him!”
    As if we didn’t already know.

    Only seconds would go by
    Before he would dismiss the others to go.
    For it was me
    That he wanted
    To take advantage of
    Down below.

    I opened my mouth to scream,
    But nothing came out.
    As I lie there, cold and stiff,
    As he pounded me about.

    Written by,Eden

  • Daenel

    Oh, I didn’t even think about the aggressiveness of this generation but, yeah, that can stem from self~esteem issues. Hopefully, by catching teens early enough and letting them know that they have value some of that anger can be controlled.

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    I was quite an introvert at the age of 13.Did not socialize much.Dove Movement for self esteem is a very good initiative taken.Glad to read about such a thing.After reading this,how i wish i had such a thing when i was at or around that age.
    I would say- “This is the age to enjoy life.Grab every opportunity you get.Remember,life will give you just one chance.”All the best.

    • Daenel

      Such a sweet and positive message, thank you for sharing. Isn’t funny how when we look back at ourselves, we realize how many opportunities we let pass us by out of fear or insecurity? I think the Dove Movement for Self~Esteem is a wonderful way of encouraging girls to see and realize their potential.

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