The Inner Mean Girl Reform School is part of a 40~day program for women where we learn to quiet our inner critic and give voice to our inner champion. For 6 weeks, I will be joining women from all over the world in ridding myself of 6 toxic habits including comparison, judgement, gossip and among others.
Each week, we will be challenged to replace our bad habits with good ones that encourage self~love, respect, honesty and acceptance.
So why am I participating in this program? Well, last month I celebrated one year of unemployment. Ok, I didn’t really celebrate, I did something short of wailing and gnashing of teeth combined with huddling in a ball. Anyway, I acknowledged the event and moved on. Kind of…
I don’t know if you’ve ever been unemployed for any period of time but, let me tell you, it starts to play with your self~esteem. I started to view each rejection not from the stand point that the company found someone who better met their needs but as a rejection of me personally. That little “mean girl” voice started to whisper: “Why don’t they want you?” “What’s wrong with you?” “Why are you such a failure?” On repeat.
I know that I’m better than that and I know that I’m more than my job. I have a successful blog, my family is happy and healthy but still, you know, there’s that voice… I need to silence her.
Do you have an inner mean girl who sabotages you at every turn? Is there something that has your confidence feeling a bit shaky? Then I invite you to join me for the 40~Day Inner Mean Girl Cleanse. Simply click here to register for the program. You can also connect on Facebook or follow Christine Arylo and Amy Ahlers on Twitter.