{Where Bloggers Live} Things I Always Say…

Hey, Friends! How’ve y’all been? Things have been wild over here. About a year ago, I noticed that my hands have been shaking to the point that doing little things like writing with a pen or pencil or using eating utensils is sometimes difficult. The Hubs has gotten to the point where he helps me out with things like opening packages because gripping things is sometimes difficult and my hand strength is nil. We still don’t have answers for why this is happening, but two new things have started to happen: my short term memory is awful and I’ve had a cough with shortness of breath for a few months. Yeah, a lot. At first, I pushing things off as menopause, being overweight, and other things. But, a few weeks ago, I was giving a presentation about the library and completely forgot what I was doing/saying. And I panicked. I could not get it together. Then about three weeks ago, I walked up the stairs at work and could not breathe. Literally thought I was going to pass out because I couldn’t get any air. I’ve had a chest X-ray and a CT scan, both normal. Now I have an appointment with a cardiologist next month. Like I said, a lot.

Along with that, the Fall 2026 semester started lasted month and things have been hectic. As you know, we have five campuses and I’ve been trying to maintain my normal travel schedule but it has left me exhausted. Still, I love traveling and visiting our campuses. Getting to know our students is always so inspirational. This year, I had library branded fidget clickers made to give to the students. They look like computer keys {with a QR code to our library website} because our library is online, you know, I wanted them to make the connection. They’ve been a big hit. Along with the bookish stickers and tattoos. LOL

Now that I’ve kinda sorta caught you up, let’s get on with today’s post…

THE PROMPT: Things I always say

I say a lot of things, so I thought it’d be fun to ask my family what I always say. I didn’t expect them to answer, but they did. We also had a few laughs and took a stroll down memory lane in the family chat. Anyway, here are their answers:

• The Hubs: “Don’t ask for nothin’…” When the kids were little, I used to give them a little warning before we entered any store that basically ended with me telling them not to embarrass me or I would embarrass them.
• Jazmine: “Dance with me.” When they were little I used to pull the car over and tell them we weren’t moving until they danced with me. I don’t get to do this often now that they’re adults, but when I get the chance, yep. 
• Brandon: “….” I do type that a lot when I don’t know what to say.
• Bryanna: “Um.” Another thing I type when I don’t know what to say.

And here are my answers:

“Yeah, no.” I’m not sure why I say this, but it’s my general response when someone asks me to do something. Most of the time, I end up doing it anyway. But, for a minute, I am standing my ground.

“Duuuude.” My general exclamation when I find something negatively or positively surprising. 

I’ve also started saying a lot of not-so-nice things because what the hell is going on in the U.S.? To counteract those negative feelings, I’ve started reminded people to check their registration status now and make a plan to vote early to ensure their voice is heard. If you don’t know where to check your registration, start with Vote.gov. Once you get in that booth, I beg of you: CHOOSE WISELY!!

ABOUT WHERE BLOGGERS LIVE

Welcome to the monthly edition of Where Bloggers Live. It’s kind of like HGTV’s “Celebrities at Home,” but…Bloggers! Who doesn’t like to peek behind the scenes and see inside people’s homes? Over the next few months, we’ll share about our work spaces, home towns, and more!

I should note – because this is super important – the creative brain behind this project is Bettye at Fashion Schlub! Love her!

The Celebrity Bloggers

Bettye at Fashion Schlub
Daenel at Living Outside the Stacks
Em at Dust and Dog Hair
Jodie at Jodie’s Touch of Style
Leslie at Once Upon a Time & Happily Ever After
Sally at Within a World of My Own

Make sure you visit everyone to see where the magic happens!

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